Wednesday, January 28, 2009

Childishness

SO. Things with my "friend" didn't work out like I wanted it to. Dude is on some middle school shit. Playing bullshit games. The same night I posted the first blog about him, he calls me and we talk until like 3am. So I'm thinking we're on good terms again, you know. Tell me why the day after we made up and whatever, he started ignoring me again. So I'm like alright whatever, you know. Gave him a little space and maybe he'll text me later on tonight. Next thing I knew, 10:30pm was rollin around and he texts me telling me "goodnight" after not talking to me that whooooooole day. I just let it go. Shit hurt my feelings because I thought we got passed all of that and whatnot, but obviously not. Didn't wanna sound like a baby so like I said, I let it go. Yesterday...same thing; no talking until about 6 or 7. Around that time he text me and asked how my day went and so on. Text for like 30 minutes and all of a sudden he stops. So I sent him a text letting him know I was gonna lay down and that I would talk to him later. He text back saying okay. THEN after I sent it I sent another one telling him that I would just talk to him tomorrow because I was gonna try to catch up on some sleep because my sleep pattern has been screwed up these past couple of days. He gets mad and tells me that I'm doing it again. Doin the same thing he got mad at me about the first time. So we end up arguing for what seems like forever and I just stop texting. Don't have time to argue over bs. But this morning he texts me acting like last night never happened. Smh. He's such an intelligent man, but his attitude is telling me otherwise. I'm too old to play middle school games. If this is what I'm gonna have to go through in order for us to be together, then I'll pass and remain single. Atleast then I won't have to worry about the drama and the childishness.

Shouts to Dom for listening to me whine lol. I appreciate it much, boo. Mwuah! :)

21 comments:

toytoyy said...

smh.
i just dnt get them at times.
i mean, sorry if you want to fckn sleep!

Rai said...

That sucks!
Males are so special I swear.

But it doesn't seem worth the headache.
Do what you feel is best though.

JuJu said...

ugh; why does he sound jes like my ex??? men can be so predictable and childish almost ALL the time!!! but i agree; better off alone then playing games with lil boyz ;)

Taylorgotbeats said...

i really like that photo, do what you feel

chanel said...

yooo, the same shit used to happen to me! like the same exact situation, he'd get all crazy on me and then be like "so whatsup?" and i'm like OH NO.
i dont like texting anymore, i think communicating through the phone or in person is just better.

JKisz said...

@ Taylor Boo: yooo i was actually crossing the street and stopped in the middle of the road and took the pic. so glad the light didn't turn green when i was in the middle of it! lol

Miss.Stefanie said...

I dont get men. Personally middle school games or high school ones dont fly with me with ANYONE. Juts know something better will come along mamas.

A.R. said...

blah, mean are so difficult sometimes.

Ashley Outrageous said...

smh, i hate that text shitttt ughhhhh. i def. feel you, what a spazz lol

johntaviousbyrd said...

everyone i talks to has been having little relationship problems.

good thing im single right now....i think? haha

but i hope everything works out for you.

Teems said...

ugh...
The picture is hot... the childish games...Not so much. Sorry to hear that. Feel better!

Kastina said...

All I know is that boys think we're crazy...and Girls just happen to know the truth. Which is BOYS ARE IDIOTS. They are just...oh man, sometimes I swear to god they all have brain damage.

xo_Deja said...

I feel lik were going thru the same stuff!! As i was reading yur blog I felt lik i was the one explaining- wtc!! i just don't understand boys! Goodluck, hope erything works out.

btw- great photo!

tianam0nique.--* said...

giiirllll ; this is what I deal with daily. "goodmorning" and "goodnight" texts with a lil bit of arguing inbetween.

*sigh.

boys are stupid.

but ur post made me smile =] hope everything works out!

Jervis said...

damn,when do me mature dude??

Devon__x said...

me and tiana bothh, uuggghh things arent working out with me and mines either somtimes we all know what best for us to do..so follow your heart hun!

diplomatikk said...

lol, go ahead & let him go.
hes hella weird for that, like wtf dude.

Brothers Blog said...

Sorry to hear ya hurting over there. But see that's what I don't understand. No offense but the way he's acting is how a woman would act, and would do. So makes no sense for him to be acting like that over something so petty. He needs to definitely grow up and get off of the games.

Hope it works out for the best.

Tha BossMack TopSoil said...

Shit real, Niggas is crazy.

ariele said...

juiicyjay u too cute to stress u know dudes are just indecisive messes bro

LaaLaa said...

o_O wtf.

dudes on a pyschotic tip. he's trying to put all this on you, he know's he's acting like a jackass!
but if he thinks your that stupid to sit and entertain him he's got another thing coming...right?!

psht he can stay there with his little boy games, he's got no class.